Allen and Thom discuss the origins of perfectionism, from a perspective of our natural need to be loved, to be accepted and to belong, and how, for many of us, it takes on a life of its own as we grow up. Emphasis is on unrealistic expectations that form when normal coping mechanisms are left unchecked and how the curse of perfectionism comes from individual traits as well as cultural and familial background.
Conversation about how we are challenged in the present to attend to unfinished emotional business continues, with both Allen and Thom giving specific examples...
Therapist and author Dr. John Amodeo joins us in conversation about the attack on the Capitol and how we might be able to contribute...
Allen & Thom do a deep dive this week into their raw formative periods, underlining how the pain and complications of their pasts contributed...